How many us have felt like you’ve had to be the ambassador of all black people when you’re around people of other races? On guy wrote me, fed up that his friends keep putting his girlfriend in uncomfortable positions. I made this video while at the BlogHer 2014 conference in San Jose, and guess who I ran into? You Tube star, CHESCALEIGH!! She was kind enough to add her sage advice, after all, she the brainchild behind “Sh*t White Girls Say to Black Girls.” I also enlisted the help of other black women at the conference who were interracially married.

Check it out. It’s kind of hilarious.