The situation:

” I was interested in one man who seemed incredible. Then another started competing with me over him. I asked him to be honest with me about the situation. He told me to ignore her because she was obnoxious. She is Hispanic. She thinks that she is better than me. I didn’t want to get into a petty argument with her so I ignored her. She went around telling this mans business. Now they are dating.”

Here’s my take: