How many of you clung on to a dead-end relationship because you thought you would never find anyone better, or thought that your current partner was “the one,” and that no one else could be more perfect for you?

When you cling to that idea, it manifests in everything. You’re desperate to make things work, willing to bend yourself into a pretzel to please, make enormous sacrifices, and humiliate yourself.

But if you know that the universe has many, many possibilities for your to find love and friendship in all forms, you’re better able to let a thing go that is no longer working for you. There’s a calm, security, and confidence in knowing there is more than just one ‘The One.’