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QOTW: “Am I Wrong to EXPLICITLY Exclude Blac...

Hi Christelyn,   I have been following this website for a little while now, and im happy to know that there is a support group for those who want to ...
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Yoga Poses to Trim The Love Handles Right Off

Building upon the previous yoga poses to target problem areas, take a gander at how side plank can trim off and tone those love handles. But it must b...
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Ask a White Guy: Older Men, Younger Women?

by SavageTango I saw an interesting discussion going on in here not too long ago. Well, pretty much every discussion here is interesting but this one ...
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If You’re Single….Get a Dog!

I can’t say that I share your frustration with being incapable of meeting people nor finding men. Seriously folks, if you are serious about find...
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Next BB&W LIVE Chat: How to Know When He (or ...

Last week’s live chat was such a massive success, we’re doing it again, and adding another hour! We’re adding it because the topic o...
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Help for My Gardener’s Hands!

  I’ve always got my hands in the dirt. Worms are my friends. I season my soil with chicken poop. With all that happening, more likely than...
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QOTW: “Will I Ever Get a Date…Ever?!&#...

The note: Hi Christelyn,  I am a fan of your website and have liked it on Facebook, so I see regular updates on every venture you deign to put up. I ...
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dating, men, relationships, marriage, swirling, black women, advice, vetting, men to avoid,

Stay Away from Sociopathic Men Who Wish to Corrupt...

Caution: I advise women who are never married single mothers to refrain from reading this post. This is not about you and your situation. Many of you ...
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Ask a White Guy: The Online Dating Quandary

We are inaugurating a new occasional feature here at Beyond Black and White called “Ask a White Guy.” This is your chance to ask the one, ...
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advice, Youtube, black men, culture, destructive behaviors, children, abandonment, warning, video, dating, single motherhood, pregnancy, fatherless children, casual sex, regrets, young women,

#NWNW: Don’t Look for the New Man to Clean U...

It’s very rare that I get questions that stir my emotions, frustrate me, and make me deeply sad. I just received such a letter from a very young...
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Intimacy Is Not Built Through Sex. Surprised?

  A couple of months ago, I downloaded Tinder after hearing good things about it. And in one month’s time, I had four dates with three guys, pr...
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QOTW: “Help! My White Friends Ask My Black G...

How many us have felt like you’ve had to be the ambassador of all black people when you’re around people of other races? On guy wrote me,...
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Ladies, Be VERY Careful Dating Ethnic Men. Parents...

I recently read an article on Your Tango called, “My Boyfriends Was Ashamed of Me Because I’m Black.” I’ll admit, the first th...
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(Bonus) QOTW: Black Women, Multiple Children, and ...

Writer: Hey my name is “Sue” I’m a black female live in St.Louis Mo I have had bad relationship with black men so I decided to date ...
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