couples

dating, spit ups, rumors, divorce, bad patterns, therapy, couples, Halle Berry, actress, Oliver Martinez, marriage, split, Hollywood,

Halle Berry Rumored Split Leads Me to Ask, “...

Apologies in advance to #TeamHalle stans, but I’m scratching my head about the news that Halle Berry might be splitting from yet another partner...
READ MORE
wedding, inspiration, mixed marriage, couples, interracial, swirling, fashion, style, wedding dress, lavender,

Lovely in Lavender: Claire and Phil

Look at Phil and Claire’s beautiful wedding photographs.  It seemed very well planned, simple and elegant.  I found these on Hitched.  Enjoy ...
READ MORE

All In Her Smile

Misha Tague shared such a cute story of how she met her husband Jason with me, that I decided to share with you in BBW-land. Jason works constructi...
READ MORE
SAHM, lifestyle, choices, options, family, parenting, marriage, couples, children, finances, aging, society, culture, stereotypes, black women,stay at home black mothers, non working mothers, stay at home parents, women who don't want to work, raising kids, child rearing, tradition, servants, privilege, freedom,

Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working”...

I find that there are few things that piss off black people more than a stay at home black mother. Not stay at home mother, but stay at home BLACK mot...
READ MORE
marriage, couples, interracial dating, women with kids, black women, options, choices, divorce, family, widowers, men with kids, advice, swirling, blended families,

Inside the Male Mind: Why Divorced Single Mothers ...

I’m about to get really real in here for a minute, and what I’m about to say is going to offend a lot of people. I understand that. And I ...
READ MORE

BBW’s First Valentine’s Day Gift Guide...

Women if you are like me, you are absolutely stumped about what to buy your beau for VDay. I personally think men are harder to shop for than women. S...
READ MORE
black men, white men, romance, relationships, advice, couples, penis, big black dick, interracial, pick up artists, mysogency, racist, racism, ignorant advice, dating, culture, stereotypes,

Listen white guys, you REALLY need to get over you...

I recently ran across a post from a “Pick Up Artist” site  by an expert giving advice to non-black men on how to date black women. It was...
READ MORE
eric asla, tyra banks, america's next top model, dating, boyfriend, romance, kisses, interracial, marriage,

It’s Official: Tyra Banks Has a New Boo

Tyra Banks, model and creator of the reality TV show for aspiring models America’s Next Top Model, was photographed getting her smooch on in a r...
READ MORE
marriage, swirling, couples, relationships, religion, inspiration,church, Monica L, God, christianity,

Monica: “I Thank God For My Husband”

Monica L. In light of a recent post, I wanted to share a refreshing story of Monica L.  This beautiful, scholarly sister would not let negative messa...
READ MORE
gifts, holidays, romance, couples, Valentine's Day, shopping, love,

Beyond Black and White Valentine’s Day Gift ...

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and for the romantics at heart, this is the ultimate day of love for the whole year. And apologies to...
READ MORE
Jordan Harbinger, Christelyn Karazin, race, demographic, OOW, marriage, partnering, tolerance, premier, youtube, dating, relationships, singles, swirling, television, day time, series, show, media, marketing, Hollywood, California, black women, non black men, biracial, announcement, culture,

My Big Announcement…

I’ve been hinting about this for a while, and I guess I could tell you, but it’s probably better to just show you…   So what is it?...
READ MORE

Watch Real Black Women with their Non-Black Boyfri...

I was just goofing around on YouTube so I thought I’d share this with you. Many people don’t think Black women can get along with non-Blac...
READ MORE
MUA, breaking the box, Lidia Bonilla, sex toys, personal pleasure, condoms, vibrators, sex, couples, privacy, Brooklyn, design, Kickstarter, black woman, relationships, sexuality, travel, discretion, discreet,

Kiss Worry Goodbye: The MUA Box Keeps Your Privacy...

Pssst…Hey you! Yeah, you with the unmentionable objects kept in the draw with your other unmentionables. Have you ever wondered how you can conc...
READ MORE

I Love Men….But The Question Is……...

Do you love men? And if not....why?...
READ MORE