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27 May 14

Just in Time for Loving Day, Moguldum Studios Rele...

I have to admit I was SCURRED to tell you guys I was in a new documentary called, The Swirl, only because the parent company, Moguldum Studios, publis...

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25 May 14

Man Candy Monday: You Nasty Boy, You Nasty…&...

They say, “Cleanliness is next to Godliness” but who wants to involve thoughts of the Pearly Gates at this leg of the race? Gym rats, athl...

25 May 14

NYC Flagship Loving Day Event on June 14! Primo Op...

If you East Coast people haven’t get gone to the Loving Day flagship event in New York city, you absolutely do not know what you’re missin...

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22 May 14

Message to the Men: Sometimes Nothing You Do Will ...

Oy vey….. What comes part and parcel of being a friend of mankind is being privy to information that other women aren’t. In addition to th...

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20 May 14

Why Do Some Black Women Think I’m Trying to ...

So…I’ve made it my business to really cease and desist addressing folks that take cheap shots at me, my work, and this site. They can stea...

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19 May 14

The Great Debate Between Me and Matthew Hussey: Sh...

Subjects for the Question of the Week often come in themes. Lately I’ve gotten a lot of questions for men and women conflicted about starting wo...

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18 May 14

Man Candy Monday: XXL Big Daddy’s and Taco M...

Are you the type of woman who likes things in large doses? I’ll be the first to admit it, I like to indulge in my vices, men included. So for al...

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18 May 14

Big Mistake: When Slavery Makes Your Romanticize &...

I recently had a radio interview with a well-know African American host. While I was invited to talk about swirling, it seems that it’s almost i...

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12 May 14

Man Candy Monday (Night Cap): Now Come to Bed̷...

Yes, there comes a time in a woman’s life where she will have to make a decision. Should she, or should she not, join him in bed? Beds are for s...

12 May 14

Man Candy Monday: Hot Guys With Beards

“Guys with beards kisses tingle, and make all the girls giggle”, or so I hear. What’s all the fuss about when it comes to men with b...

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04 May 14

Man Candy Monday: Long Hair, Don’t Care

I love men of all shapes and sizes. Though you can usually catch a well groomed man on my arm I do hold a place in my peripheral for those who forgo c...