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04 May 14

Bow Down! BB&W Friend, Gigi Grows Mid-Back Le...

When I saw my friend Gigi’s length check after months of her hiding her hair in protective styles, I could hardly believe my eyes. In ten months...
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20 Jan 14

Toni: “Don’t Judge” = “Hel...

Any Twilight Zone fans out there? “Neither sympathy nor compassion can be handed out wholesale like cheap bubblegum.” This is a quote from...
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25 Dec 13

Message to the Lurkers: Not All of Us Are Preachin...

I know there are Hella people that come through here to read, and I understand like anywhere else, its hard to step out of your safe corner and make f...
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29 May 13

My Advice to You…..Consider the Source

Sometimes its hard to know what to say when dealing with people in general. Of course, we all want to feel like our opinions are valued and we're all ...
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24 Nov 12

TRJ Shrinks Yo’ Mind: Why Some Black Women C...

Check out why Tracy Renee Jones thinks some black women get prickle when someone has something nice to say....
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