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Sad News: Former BB&W ‘Hottie’ Su...

I received some devastating news from my friend, Niki Chambers, who told me that my long-time Facebook friend and former “Hottie of the Week,...
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Ain’t No Mountain High Enough – The Ba...

  IĀ stumbled across this video of the fabulous Barbara Hillary a couple years back and revisited it today.Ā  As a relationship coach, I meet man...
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Confessions From a Woman Struggling with Her Sanit...

Writing has always been my escape from life. I understood, at a very early age, that no one really gave a fuck about what happened to me. My job as a ...
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LMAO Haters are Hilarious!

Sometimes, when I read mean and crazy stuff by people who have an insane, mouth-frothing, over-the-top hatred for me, I get sad. And then I realize, I...
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My Advice to You…..Consider the Source

Sometimes its hard to know what to say when dealing with people in general. Of course, we all want to feel like our opinions are valued and we're all ...
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Who Da F*ck Did I Think I Am………&...

More artistry from our favorite BB&W poet......
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Come Hither: Moving On After a Loss (Pt 1)

If you live long enough you'll realize that finding a special love is no easy feat. When we come across that man or woman that makes our days brighter...
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Come Hither: Get Your Sex, Love, Relationship Ques...

Tracy's gonna be our sexy go-to girl!...
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Identifying Black Counterproductive Behavior: R...

If we look at the different phrases used to describe the act of bearing and raising children there is a telltale clue to the difference in the way in ...
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Give the Gift of Words……A Book of Curs...

Our lovely Tracy Renee......
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Takers, Makers and Shakers

The only problem is....there is no free stuff. At least there is no welfare program that I qualify for, nor have I qualified for, or rather, my inabil...
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Growing a Sexually Aware Young Person

There was no book to teach me how to accomplish what I felt was wrong with much of what occurs when it comes to the sexual growth of young people. As ...
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