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07 Oct 14

QOTW: “Men Stare, But Don’t Make a Mov...

The Question: What does it mean when men stare at you without smiling? This happens often to me, and i’m not doing anything out of the ordinary ...

15 Sep 14

MAN CANDY MONDAY: 50 Shades of Bae’

When I tell you that I’m all about sexy guys and making real life love connections I need you to know I’m so sincere! If I wasn’t I ...

Youtube, just married, couple, relationship, black women white man, mating, community, celebration,

09 Sep 14

Video: You Tubers, Shelly and Michael Tie the Knot...

Up-and-coming You Tube star couple, Shelly and Michael made it official earlier this month. They wanted to share their happy day with our community. D...

Niki McElroy, James Swanwick, Youtube, Google+, private chat, community, advice, social ques, body language, dating, relationships, mating,

08 Sep 14

Next BB&W LIVE Chat: How to Know When He (or ...

Last week’s live chat was such a massive success, we’re doing it again, and adding another hour! We’re adding it because the topic o...

QOTW, dating, relationships, mating, romance, advice, Facebook,

25 Aug 14

QOTW: “Will I Ever Get a Date…Ever?!&#...

The note: Hi Christelyn, I am a fan of your website and have liked it on Facebook, so I see regular updates on every venture you deign to put up. I ...

sex, intimacy, dating, mating, relationships, online dating, healthy communication, red flags, rules of dating, advice,

27 Jul 14

Intimacy Is Not Built Through Sex. Surprised?

A couple of months ago, I downloaded Tinder after hearing good things about it. And in one month’s time, I had four dates with three guys, pr...

QOTF, black women dating white men, women with children, vetting, relationships, mating, dating, single mothers, advice, video, Youtube, using men as a back up plan, learn proper vetting, finding a step father, loser men, self esteem, priorities,

18 Jul 14

(Bonus) QOTW: Black Women, Multiple Children, and ...

Writer: Hey my name is “Sue” I’m a black female live in St.Louis Mo I have had bad relationship with black men so I decided to date ...

07 Jul 14

Man Candy Monday: Hollywood Hotties Then, and Now

What’s the saying again, “Something old, something new. Something Man Candy, just for you?” Age ain’t nothing but a number whe...

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08 Jun 14

Man Candy Monday: Enough to Share, Sexy Twins For ...

You ever been somewhere and seen a hot guy? Then as you gaze another hot guy shows up, and then you do a double take as you realize the hot guys are T...

advice, dating, mating, relationships, blended families, youtube video, new couples, acceptance, standing your grown, Swirling, book, racism, white women dating black men, allies, engagement,

03 Jun 14

QOTW: White Woman Asks, “How Can I Get My Fa...

While this question is from a white woman dating a black man, the advice is universal for all interracial combinations. We dedicate an entire chapter ...