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What is a Single Person to Do on Valentine’s Day...

Trigger warning: Some people really dislike seeing people who are not black and female featured on the blog. I do hear you and understand your feeling...
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Another Pink Pill Dosage: Couples in Review, Part ...

We are back again with another “Pink Pill Dosage,” where I look back on some of the past couple spotlights, and draw some advice, insight and real...
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Samantha and Freddie: Give Online Dating a Chance,...

I was delighted to interview Samantha and on her relationship with Freddie. Their relationship will be the first “blatino” couple we feature. I ho...
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Samantha and Freddie: Getting out of the Comfort Z...

I was delighted to interview Samantha and on her relationship with Freddie. Their relationship will be the first “blatino” couple we feature. I ho...
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Samantha and Freddie: He Knew From the First Date ...

I was delighted to interview Samantha and on her relationship with Freddie. Their relationship will be the first “blatino” couple we feature. I ho...
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3 of the Cutest Holiday Date Ideas

Written by: Saran Lawson   The holidays are upon us. Mistletoes are hanging in every place imaginable, and cuffing (relationship) season is in f...
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Match.com Says 35% of New Marriages Happening Onli...

Online behemoth Match.com recently announced at the annual “Singles in America” study by Match Group the 35% of marriages occur online. T...
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QOTW: “How Do I Stop Believing I’m Und...

Hello! So, a brief description of myself. I am a young black woman, 21, in college and due to graduate soon. I have always known that I was more attra...
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The Importance of Little Mystery: Would You Click...

There’s a saying that familiarity breeds contempt. While that’s an arguable point, a little mystery when it comes to attracting potential ...
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BB&W Writer Joins Tinder…Check Out the ...

It’s not like I needed another app on my phone but the temptation was just too great to ignore. I was several shades of bored a few weeks ago an...
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#OnlineDating Success…She Made the First Mov...

Online dating has it’s ups and downs, I’ll admit you often have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. However, with 52% of m...
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Intimacy Is Not Built Through Sex. Surprised?

  A couple of months ago, I downloaded Tinder after hearing good things about it. And in one month’s time, I had four dates with three guys, pr...
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QOTW: Black Woman Wonders About Interracial Dating...

The Letter… Hi Christelyn, I came across the BB&W website chance through a FB friends repost of a picture from the Interracial Dating Centra...
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BB&W Online Dating Challenge: Deconstruct My ...

I am active on four online dating sites: POF.com, Match.com, AfroRomance.com, and SeniorsMeet.com. In this post, we are going to critique the main tex...
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