I get accused of this quite often, but if folks feel some kinda way because I don’t think it’s right to tell black women that need to look under every rock, crevice, highroad and low road, all the continents and along the Seven Seas and the Black Sea to find a black man so folks with no interest in black women individually can till hold on to the ‘black love’ ideal.

Anyone who begrudges black women of finding love in whatever package it comes, in my opinion, doesn’t have the best interest of black women at heart.